of course, situations that aren’t what you expected or desired break you. Hearing bad news breaks you. Many things can break you. How ever, it’s worse when you’re not in a yes or no situation. Basically you’re on a sway, your life could go either way. It’s bad to know something and have that be something horrible. It’s worse to not know where you are, worrying for what may not be reality. That is an odd thing. Not knowing.